in a couple of days i am going to move into my dorm and start life as a college student. living with a stranger wouldn't be so bad except that i like girls and for the next year i'm going to be shacking up with some strange girl who i've never met. a lesbian living with a strange girl can only have one of four possibilities. the first is that she freaks and immediately wants to change rooms to get away from the "dyke". the second is that she is not only cool with me being gay but is a hottie who has no problem being naked around a lesbian. which isn't so bad except that it could get sexually frustrating. the third possibility is that she uses me as her way of the cliche "experimenting in college". and knowing me i would probably fall for her and be rejected since she's just "experimenting". the fourth possibility is the one i like best, that she's a lesbian too and we get to live together without having to have the big deal of living together. haha. but the chances of me lucking out like that are very very slim. oh well. lets all hope for the 4th outcome.
my real question though is should i tell them that i'm a lesbian right away?
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hey
i had the same problem when i came to college, i put it out there in casual conversation that i was gay and she was totally fine with it. its best to put it out there in kinda the begining that way she doesnt feel like you lied to her or were dishonest in any way. just keep it casual and if it gets awkward you can always move.
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thing is if u make a big deal about it, theres more chance she will as well..maybe just slip it into conversation,something like, 'yes well my last girfriend...or my ex loved that, she would always talk about it...etc. see how she reacts to that. she may question u or let it go, but either way shell know and u wont have put yourself on the line, leaves the next move up to her! x best wishes :)
Why not?
Sure you should say that. And allways hope for the best (4th).
Good luck huney,
Take care & God bless
Kanta