Responding to a question about why she and her life partner were getting married at the Beverly Hills courthouse, Robin Tyler said, "This is a civil rights movement. The courthouse is the place where we were turned down."

How did you come up with the idea to produce and sponsor this Juneteenth event for the Sullivan County Catskills, NY?
One of my trite mottos is “Don’t fuss about it, be about it.” I moved to Sullivan County with my life and business partner almost six years ago. So, we decided that Juneteenth, being the oldest and grandest African-American holiday, and extremely underexposed, needed to be brought to Sullivan County; and we’ve been doing it ever since.
Did you grow up being aware of it and celebrating it? At what point in your life did you find out what it is and what the celebration is about?
I believe I was a late teenager — and I’m not going to tell you how many years ago that was, but let’s just say a while ago — when I discovered that every slave was not freed on January 1, 1863. Up until that time, I was taught, told and thought that everyone was freed via Lincoln’s Emancipation Proclamation. It was only later when I learned it took a full two and a half years for the slaves of Galveston, TX, who were the last group, to learn that they were free. And they found out on June 19, 1865. So, the slave dialect coupled with the Texas southern...
Twang.
Yes. “June 19” became “Juneteenth.” And to those who know it well, it’s also affectionately named “Emancipation Day.” Some people call it the “Black Fourth of July.” For me, it’s an inclusive holiday that celebrates freedom and empowerment.
And L. Monique, you are an amazing spoken word artist, and you talk about the focus for you of education with it, that that’s a huge part of what you do in this expression — what brought you to become a poetess, as you’ve been called, and a spoken word artist?
Wow! I’ve been doing poetry for a very, very long time. I was 11 years old writing poems for my friends who actually wanted love letters written to their boyfriends and their girlfriends, and that’s how I started. My mother read to me the first poem I’d ever heard, and it was a poem entitled “In the Morning” by Paul Laurence Dunbar. It’s written in a southern dialect, and she did the whole thing out of her head. So, I was just already taken aback by that.
But when I was about seven years old, I was reared in Park Slope, Brooklyn, and we had a wonderful place there called BAM, the Brooklyn Academy of Music. And on a school trip one day, I had the opportunity to see another poet who reminded me very much of myself — she had a short natural haircut, full-featured black woman — and she went on to become the first African-American poet to win the Pulitzer Prize. Her name is Gwendolyn Brooks. That was probably one of the most empowering and inspiring creative experiences I’ve ever had. And I think, subconsciously at that moment, I knew this is what I wanted to do. I think that a great part of my job is to be the “voice of the voiceless,” because there are so many people out there in so many situations who are not in positions to be able to speak for themselves. And as an artist, if you can do that, then that’s what you need to do. And that’s what I try to do.
L. Monique is now living in Charlotte, NC. If you’re down south, check out her monthly queer poetry bash and her gay pride shows in North and South Carolina and Atlanta.
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thank you
L. Monique has been enlighening me the first wed of every month for the last 6 months or so... this was a great article... so thank you for bringing juneteenth into the light and talking about L. Monique because i think they are both things we need to hear more about!
Juneteenth is my favorite
Juneteenth is my favorite holiday. Great article.
Happy Juneteenth
I couldn't believe after four years of Expensive schooling I hadn't heard of Juneteenth either. Thanks Sabrina for educating me! And for sharing the stories of the people you meet. Our whole history comes alive from our individual stories. : )
Minneapolis Juneteenth Celebration
Minneapolis has a great Juneteenth celebration each year in Theodore Wirth Park. It is always held on the Saturday closest to the 19th. This year it is Saturday, June 21.
There will be a Juneteenth night at the WNBA Minnesota Lynx basketball game on Saturday. Yay!
thanks for the history lesson, as
I had not heard of Juneteenth. I am familiar with the Virginia vs. Loving case,(I'm from southeastern Va.)- and, sadly I have to report that we have not made a lot of progress since that historical ruling.
I will be sure to spread the word about Juneteenth.
Peace
Celebrator Here
About 25 years ago, I left a secure job, sold my home, put my worldlies in a backpack and climbed on a train to NYC where I left for St. Thomas. I happened to leave on June 17. I told the rail car attendant that I was in full flight from the vortex of 8-5, planning for retirement before I turned 30 and talking about camellias with my friends. He laughed and congratulated me for celebrating Juneteenth. That was the first time I heard about it, but when it rolls around each year, I think about it with gratitude for breaking free and allowing myself to experience a different way of life for awhile. The timing of the same-sex marriages here in California is a great way to celebrate that day in new ways. Thanks, Sabrina, for drawing those parallels and writing about this.
Lezbeth
Thanks Lezbeth
for sharing this wonderful story about your search for the kind of "free" life that includes, "talking with my friends about camellias".
Thank you for highlighting the poetess L. Monique
It is a very important holiday and will- as other significant dates have been entered into the annals of history. Language is such an important device;
I'm just sayin'.....
L. Monique is the Queen
of the word. I think that language not only describes our world but does really impact and create it.
My sentiments exactly.....
Thank you for your always enlightening and your exceptional work with all in and about our community.
I'm just sayin'.....
Every year
there is a Juneteenth celebration thrown by Power 92 Jams, a Rap & R&B station, in downtown Little Rock. It pretty much consists of 20 rap stars throwin down all weekend. I'm not quite sure that there is a lot of remembering going on, but it promises to be a great time!
Little Rock Celebration
Sounds like lots of fun. Great knowing what's happening in Arkansas.
I was unaware...
Thanks for the history lesson. I will have to inform others and celebrate Juneteenth this Friday.
Juneteenth is a biggie in Texas
and I'm sure across the southern US - Same as Cinco de Mayo... Don't they have Juneteenth in NYC?
Texas celebrates all holidays (typically not Jewish - not a lot of Jews in Texas) with awesomeness.
Juneteenth Celebrations
I'll ask L. Monique what's happening in NC where she now lives. FYI: There's a Star of David on my Dad's tombstone in a little town in Southwest Texas which is the only one in that cemetery. A Southern Baptist Minister led the funeral(since there were no Jews anywhere nearby) with great respect for his adopted Jewish identity. It is very interesting to see it there knowing the complex history of Anti-Semite, racist and Christian Fundamentalist histories there.
125,000 Jews in all of Texas
less than 1% of population. No wonder no one knows we are there! LOL But more than 40 governors in Texas have been Jewish, no how weird is that? Do you still think we have horns?
horns?
only if you go to UT... University of Texas Longhorns - Hook'em Horns.
Thanks for doing the research! My company was bought recently by a company out of NYC. Since the CEO is Jewish we get a slew of holidays we never had, but the problem is we don't get all of the ones they take in NYC - and since less than 1% of the populace is Jewish in Texas, we don't always know when they are out of the office. Sometimes getting answers from NY is a problem.
yanks
don't pay attention, obviously...
dag
how bad is my American history!
this is the first I've heard of Juneteenth.
It all makes such perfect and unavoidable sense that queer liberty is the final (or at least the next) frontier.
thanks as always for the education.
I'm expecting you to share some very interesting insights from your LA trip!
Revisionist history
makes learning about important American events difficult. I'm grateful to all of the amazing people around me who share so much so I can better understand the real history of this country.
I wasn't familiar with
I wasn't familiar with Juneteenth either and that's a real shame considering what I do for a living. Thank you for enlightening me.
yeah!
Get your head out!!!
Ok, that was a joke. laugh!
You are smart regardless, and we know it.
Ha! I knew I could count on
Ha! I knew I could count on you for some good sarcasm Carlin. I left you wide open for that one. ;-)