i like boobs, does that count?.... :P
I like girls, as long as are girls i'm cool, unless they're not a girl, then i'm definitely not cool.
Coz if they're not a girl i'd have to un-come out to my parents and that would be a massive hassle :)
Labels are for label-makers, i just like boobs :)

And as much as we keep saying that is just "a style" is not. On the contrary with straight relationships (I have had a few) style is not that important. Here in our lives it's a break point. I mean, people always assume I'm straight, and I feel bad when lesbians come to me and try to question my style or ask in a bad way that why do I look so girly. BECAUSE!!! because I am a woman and I absolutely LOVE to be one. And... that is why I like women. SO... I don't want to believe that I have to date only tomboyish girls in order to get "a balance" seriously you guys don't do that. Don't you dare to question our feminity. We have enough with random people questioning why we are into the same sex.

If you keep talking about "a balance" with masculine and feminine you are just making a strong point and reafirming that in order to be normal, a couple has to be conformed by masculine and feminine. So, what are then we lesbians???

me and my girl are sometimes in a power struggle. i'm femme(ish) and she's boy(ish)...i don't like the term butch. anyway, sometimes i like to be a dirty tomboy and sometimes she likes to dress up. recently she asked to use my make up and i nearly shat myself. it made me feel a bit awkward but whatever.

it's cute when we fight over clothing.

i don't mind it.

as long as you are having hot sex with another girl, who cares what your or her style is?

I could never be with a boyish girl, no matter how "weird" other lesbians would find my relationships with other femme girls.

But honestly I don't think others think this is weird either. And the basic importance is that YOU feel comfortable i a relationship, and not what other people may think or say.

But I don't think femme/femme-relationships is more rare than butch/femme-relationships. I think that we more often recognizes two lesbians if they are in a femme/butch-relationship, because then their roles are so obvious to us. We don't need to speculate very much if they are a couple or not, cause' if they are holding hands, we draw than conclusion automatically.

But if we see two girls holding hands, whom are both femme girls, we start to question ourself "are they a couple? or are they just friends?". In other words; it's not strange that you think that you see butch/femme-couples more often, when we register those couples more often. Perhaps you have passed A LOT of femme, lesbian girls who are indeed a couple, you have just assumed that they are straight and best friends...?

My ex and I,both femme.
Although now...she kinda is becoming less so.

I am femme,and I like girls who are femme.

I recently came out and people ask me what kind of girl that I like. I guess I would be considered a femme. I tend to gravitate more towards the girls who are tomboyish, but not butch. if that makes any sense. They don't wear men's clothing but you won't see them in dresses or heels everyday. I like natural beauties.

I'm a stem I suppose...one of my friends called me that and said I was a mix between a femme and a stud. I personally am attracted to any type of girl no matter how butch, femme, old, or young...well maybe the young factor matters a bit lol. I love women...that's all that really matters.

i'm a femme who is all about femme's, i just get turned out by girly things. sometimes it does get ruined by guys always trying to get in the middle of it, but i also think that is funny, like some guy drooling over a situation that he can't be apart of.

I don't always understand women :D No offense. But it's like saying a tall guy can't be with a short fat woman.
Never really understood these lesbian stereotypes.
Why can't it be simple as I like blondes or I like brunettes? :D Why does it have to be, I don't date femmes, I don't date butches, I don't date tomboys, I don't date bisexuals.
Very difficult for some to find anyone after a long list of requirements.

femme, I guess, and my girlfriend is tomboy, def. not femme and def. not butch.

I don't think personally, I could deal with a femme. I really can't stand women. Is that odd? Some of my friends are amazed that I'm dating a woman, cause I can't stand them. I shouldn't say that, I can't stand prissy women, who whine and freak out if they get dirty, or girls who just sit and gossip all day...they drive me insane...

Maybe this explains my Friday night!! lol
A girl and I were kissing in a club on Friday night. I'm femme and she's definitely femme... anyway, all these people started taking pictures of us?!! I just didn't understand. I mean, it's a gay club... what's so odd about two girls kissing?
But I thought about it, and it seems whenever I kiss really girly girls, people tend to stare like it's for show or something. Very frustrating!! lol

To answer the rest of your questions:
I don't go around labelling myself but if I have to I would say I'm very femme in terms of looks. To me it's completely natural (and hot, lol) to see two femme girls together.
Something to remember is that how you look does not reflect your personality, in terms of dominant/submissive, if that's your angle. I've been the chaser and the chased.

:)

butch & butch is really, weird !
personally i prefer be butch, and be with a femme

I used to be a real tomboy. But now I'm more I guess you could say androgynous, I can be dominant but I can also be submissive, I can choose to be boyish and I can choose to be girlish. It depends on who I'm with, shrug.

Femme with femme looks fine, I have no problem with it like it doesn't look weird. Butch with butch however, I've never seen, so it's more unusual to me I guess?

"Don't forget me.
I won't remember anything else."