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June 29, 2008 - 1:31pm — poeticalcleaok slight tricky problem here which someone might be able to help me out with. My new partner says she gets great pleasure out of satisfying me and likes to give but when I said It's weird to me to not share mutual sex(because Im used to giving and recieving) she was slightly off with me and wouldn't let me near. I dont mind her pleasing me but then I feel like their is something wrong because she wont let me please her, whats it all about? Anyone?
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I was going to say that. You
I was going to say that. You know, maybe she's afraid of falling for you. Thats how it was for me. I wouldn't let anyone "touch" me because I was afraid of falling. I'm sorry that all this happened to you. If you ever need anyone to talk to you can always aim at starblues3. Keep your head up!
My ex too, she wanted only
My ex too, she wanted only to give and never took her trousers off, it was very frustrating to me, because I am accustomed in do&receive, and I wanted to give her some pleasure, but she absolutely refused it and didn't want to tell me why.
*ChEeRs*
I'm glad I'm not alone in
I'm glad I'm not alone in being a do and receive lady. I understand how frustrating it can be, but do wonder if she has a reason for not letting me pleasure her. Well we've since ended so I doubt none of it matters now. lol.
J~O~D~I~E
just going to point
just going to point something out - you said "Why do people always love someone who treated them like crap" I assume you were referring to how she still loves her ex, but don't you realize she's been treating you like crap, and you still have feelings for her?
I get your point here, I
I get your point here, I didn't realise she was treating me like crap until I just sat back and looked at it how you said. It's just so difficult to find where I am right now. I feel lost.
J~O~D~I~E
Thanks everyone, Im gonna
Thanks everyone, Im gonna see how things go.:)
J~O~D~I~E
It's all over
No point in this post now. She decided she only wants to be friends now, which is something I can't do, it's too difficult for me right now because my emotions are all over the place. I love her so how can I just be a friend. I also know what she is like, she will want hugs etc which then lead to kisses and more, it's so stupid. It's because something happened with her ex and she still isn't over her. Why do people always love someone who treated them like crap but the nice people like myself seem to get shit on time and time again? Right now I'm so low and can't seem to pick myself up from this, I really thought I had met the one this time, she means the world to me.
J~O~D~I~E
PLEASURE WORKS 2 WAYS
I used to be the touch me not AG, didnt want my mate to touch me because i was so called manly. But what man you know dont like his pleasure also. I believe that versatile sex is the best. I love to give as much as i love to recieve. But thats just me . Do what pleases you. If you do not like what she is doing . Let her know either she will change or you will move on
I agree with jeeplez...
I had a gf who was like ur partner and it really was weird for me 2, cuz i felt like i was just there leaving all the work to her =(
Then i saw how much she enjoyed it, and a couple of months later she let me do the same things to her.
Is not wrong if ur comfortable with it
trust her
don't take her pleasure if that's what she wants. In time that may change but trust that she knows what turns her on and that's the power of getting someone else off. Don't underestimate that powers appeal. relax and enjoy and just make sure she knows that your willing to recipricate whenever.