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July 9, 2008 - 6:46pm — femmeThe straight girl crush/feelings!
We have all had it at one point in time!_________ How do you get over it and why does it keep happening?
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Thanks for the response...
That's good advice!!! At least getting some clearer answers will make it go easier one way or the other. LOL
i wish i knew...
...how to get over straight-girl-crushes instantly. i've got a HUGE one right now. i work with her and we hang out outside of work a ton since we get along so well. it kills me but it's my own fault because i try to hang around her as much as i can.
my first straight-girl-crush i got over because she moved back home from college for the summer and lived further away the next semester. if you really want to get over it, you just have to not put yourself around her and limit/eliminate contact with her. it just takes time.
why does it keep happening? because only 10% (i've heard that somewhere) of the ladies in the world are on our team, you're bound to run in to one of the 90% who you find yourself drawn to.
Plus, you felt sweet when
Plus, you felt sweet when hang out with her.right?
CREAT THE L
geez 10 %?! im sure its lil
geez 10 %?!
im sure its lil more than that.
if its only 10 percent that'd be sad.
somehow i usually end up liking girls whose orientation arent clear to people.
it's hard for me to like someone who is so straight looking and who is totally into boys.
one people in ten is gay
one people in ten is gay so...it's just 10% :(
that's why most of the girls are staight...
but it might be more, counting that in many countries gayness is a crime so many people hide it, and also people in all countries hide it... so if it was taken out of statistics, the reality may be better!
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And if my present deeds are foolish in thy sight, it may be that a foolish judge arraigns my folly.
yeah but i wonder what the #
yeah but i wonder what the # would be if it were also bi people...and the fact that the statistic is counting on people openly admitting this to someone that they dont know who is doing to counting...idk if i would tell someone who comes up are asks r u gay? for some stat. thing. since i wouldnt know them. i would probably be like what are you CALLING me gay? lol
talking about myself, I
talking about myself, I always lie on statistics... >:D
I'm bad, I know... But if someone came to me asking "are you gay?" I don't know if I would say the truth, but most probably I would ask "does bi count as gay for statistics?"
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And if my present deeds are foolish in thy sight, it may be that a foolish judge arraigns my folly.
We all want what we can't
We all want what we can't have. ;) Maybe it's just that. Or perhaps it's just the challenge.
Its tough to let them go, but oh well. apparently I "look" straight, but I'm not. I'm awesome.
i have one i think it beats everyones
well her husband moved for his job next to us from england i think and know his wife with there baby came a few weeks ago. and shes the most gerougus thing ive seen in a long time. and i was sittin in my front of the house . i saw her walkin said hi yesterday and today. when ever shes with her husband and i see her she always looks at me . and like she stays at home all day she dosnt know anyone she dosnt have car either. so im thinkin if i see her again i cud offer to drive her to a park or somewhere
ugh
im almost over a straight girl crush, actually.
she was straight and taken. ugh!
the only reason we're not seeing each other anymore is because her boyfriend doesn't like me and told her not to see me ever again.
i've been keeping myself busy with video games and all.
so far so good.
im 98% over her.
-xi-
good for you
I know it is hard!
Time...
Um... time and focusing on someone else. Sometimes the best thing is, as hard as it might be, to keep your distance until you can move on. Sometimes, it's the opposite, it's about getting to know them as a friend so you realise they're normal and not perfection like you thought they were and that you value them as friends more.
The thing to remember is that yes, falling for straight girls is hard, but even if they were gay they might not be interested... Often it's the idea you can never have someone makes them seem even more appealing, you know?
Just keep concentrating on finding the girl that's just around the corner, who is perfect for you, more attractive and more amazing - but into you!!
You'll be fine!!!
xx
How do you get over it? You
How do you get over it? You realize you'll have to grow a penis first. Why does it keep happening? They're girls anyway.
Get your queer on
I recently fell for one of
I recently fell for one of my straight friends. When we first met I didn't know that she was straight and so I started flirting with her. I saw her a few more times at parties and she even made out with me a few times so I thought that I was in the door, but then she hooked up with one of my guy friends... dun dun dun... I then found out that she was only interested in me when she was drinking and that she was really interested in my guy friend.
Now they are dating and I am forced to hang out with her when the group gets together. She always asks me why I'm quiet and reserved, and I just tell her that I'm tired, but really I'm dying inside cause I can't be with her.
Geez
I wish I had the answer of how to turn it off sometimes. Bc I have had so many problems with this. I'm with a guy but always had feelings for girls. Therefore identifying with being bisexual. My two best friends are gay, and I've had a thing for my lesbian best friend for as long as I've known her (three years), before she even came out, and she knew about a little bit of it, and she thought it went away, because of the fact that through everything I've been with this guy. And then now balancing with that I still have this mini crush on a close friend thats MARRIED to a guy, and it sucks. She's been with more girls that guys but she says she sworn off those days. Gosh.
<3
I agree with
I agree with ___yellowtrash___ its not something you can control. We cant control what gay women we like so of course we cant control liking a straight woman.Its just something that happens. When we like someone we build them up and think they are 'perfect' so I find that tryin to just realise they are normal like everyone else lessens the crush. I dont know!!!
i've fancied loads of straight women.
that might make me sound really bad or something but it's not something you can really control. like with anyone else you fall for. straight women are always gonna be here but knowing that they're straight and they're not gonna convert anytime soon just stops me from thinking any more of it.
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it happens becoz we fall for
it happens becoz we fall for WOMEN... doesnt matter what they are..its gonna keep happenin matie
how to get over it? pretend shes a man... photoshop her head onto a fat hairy mans body and put it up on ur wall... as soon as u think about her stare at the pic and throw up
yes i know im a genious....
yes...
i know... i am.. wonderful
anytime dear...
I've only had one, and i'm
I've only had one, and i'm still kinda getting over it. Have liked my straight (TAKEN) friend for a few months and the crush kinda turns on and off. I've always known I have no chance with her, and I think it's finally ending.
Whats stopping it? I forced myself to stop placing her as the girl in my dreams