i think the biggest thing is just to be patient. my ex was straight and she actually went after me. i was just there for her to talk to and never really pushed her to label herself, to come out to anyone or to do anything physical. it all just came naturally with time. (and actually in a really short time) we were together for almost a year and she still dates girls now. i have alot of respect for her because her view on sexuality was that she'd been with so many guys that treated her shitty that if she met someone who treated her well it didnt matter if they were male or female. and for me it wasn't about "getting the straight girl" it was about treating a beautiful girl the way she deserved to be treated.

I have a straight girl crush. At least I think she's striaght. And my friends figured it out! And then calling it a straight girl crush, I don't even know what my sexuality is. This particular situation is confusing me. But I'm pretty much over her now. I think. I hope.

she said, sorry but im not gay or bisexual
and after one hour of talking and flirting we went to my house haha
there are not such a thing like straight girls in this planet
every one is intrested in the gay world
and are a little bisexual, but sometimes is hard to admit for them :T

I just love em!

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It is what it is and you cannot change it!

i like this straight grl well actually she isnt straight becuz shez my grl friend anyway...im not exactly when shez ready like will i know or will she tell me...

i dont want to do something an she have regrets i mean afterall i will b her 1st and personally ive never turned a grl out!!! wat do i do???

lez_bian

I have a straight girl crush and the problem is that there have been these moments where I feel like it might happen and then it doesnt... AND what was super lovely is that we were out at a bar and then a friend of hers came by and she ended up hooking up with HIM right in front of me and I almost had a heart attack- so having straight girl crushes suck

that is until I met the best thing that ever happened to me. We started out as friends. Met her at work. I didn't know that she was gay because she was all natural. no makeup and we were in work uniforms so dressing didn't count. I asked her for her number first. You know just to hang out I finally thought I found a friend in chi town.

Well after we hung out a few times I grew really attracted to her. She never hit on me but I could tell she was attracted. It wasn't until sometime later that she told me she was gay. Then well u know it was on and hoppin after that. That was almost 2yrs ago and we are still together.

So not all straight girls will break your heart. But if they do its because they were more curious than ever to be with another women than to become a lesbian. It could also be because of the stereotypes of others. They can be so mean.

We still work together but no one at work knows that we ARE together.

Sadly I also have "0" gaydar. I would go after a straight girl the same way I go after a gay girl(of course a few minor adjusments would be needed).Straight girls are a big headache,but they sure can be fun.LOL My first straight girl crush was my grade one teacher...she looked so much like Farrah Fawcett...mmmmm!!

I reference this issue in my blog...

Straight girls can be difficult. For a lot of them, it's all about the experimentation of what it's like to be fucked by a woman rather than a penis. Some of them decide they're really bi after that, but many of them go back to their men, leaving the dyke involved with a broken heart or with the insane desire to never look at another straight girl again.

I used to like to play around and go after the straight girls. The first thing to do is flirt with women. and if a female flirts back its a sign that they are bi or curious. to me all women are curious. they all want to know what it feels like to kiss or touch a female some of them just put on a front as if they arent interested. But just be yourself. there is no such thing as a gaydar.lol

Can't stand falling for a striaght gurl. Lolz. It like almost never works out and they so are hard to get over :P

I've had one very serious relationship which was with a straight girl for two years. In the end she cheated on me with a boy and dumped me for him. Straight girls can be full of surprises. I wouldn't trust them, but I seem to fall into their clutches. The last girl I dated was my ex-girlfriend (the one of two years)'s current boyfriend's exgirlfriend. She has also been known to be straight. She says she's always been attracted to girls, but alas in the end it was the male yet again beating me.

I've decided to lay off the straight girls. They give me a headache. As of right now it is extremely hard for me to find someone I'm interested in.

Perhaps I just like the hunt of the straight girls.

Actually, every time that I have dated a straight girl they have come on to me. I wasn't even thinking abut hitting on them and they get to me first. Surprise. Surprise.

Stay away.

well, i was a bi girl until i wasn't...haha.
straight girls with all have a small amount of heteroflexibility in them...esp. after a few drinks. it really depends on what it is you want in the long run...but to attract attention is simple...make eye contact and SMILE goddamn it. all women really want is to feel adored and desired...whether they're straight or not. grow some guts and go for it.
but if you're looking for love...i would stick to finding a chemistry that is mutual and not drawn out by one side...

Beauty is a light in the heart,
Not in the face. - K. Gibran

i can tell you my story of my straight girl experience. as of right now im taken but this was abotu a year ago. see i was straight until..not.. like most of us. haha but one day last year a girl i went to school with and but didn't know showed up at a house party. i was drunk and when she first walked in i was in awe. she had straight written all over her so i decided not to do anything cause even though its sad..most of these end up in heart break. but out of nowhere with a little help of alcohol it was her flirting with me. i was a little confused and brushed it off as much as i could. before i knew it we were up stairs by ourselves and she kissed me. the next morning i remembered everything but i wasn't sure she did. her friend is my friend too so i talked to her and she was like were all going to lunch and she is coming you shoudl too. it was awkward at first but needless to say in the end i got the girl...for a little bit anyways until yes, she broke my heart. just be careful my friend..straight girls are fun but damn, they can crush you.

I don't post here much, but I felt compelled to show some solidarity, once I'm a self declared "Straight Girl Crush Queen". I guess I've never fallen for a gay girl. (I think Alicia Keys doesn't count, does she? LOL)
As for some advice, I don't have any. People keep telling me to forget about it, but how?
I'd just tell you to go for it, even though you might end heartbroken...
And don't worry about numero dos. I will work just fine. :)

I was straight, until I wasnt anymore. lol
My friend was the first one I confided in, she is straight, but very open-minded. So I always go out with her, and after a few drinks the dancing gets dirty... she's always down for whatever, but my conscience kicks in always and I realize, that even if the straight girl is into it, and says its 'all-good', when she wakes up tomorrow and realized what just happened... our friendship's gonna be in trouble.
-Valeriya K

i really hate all this
'hi, im really into you, wanna fuck?' bullshit, cause thats all it is, if your really into someone, then it shouldn't just be about sex,
SO first things first, if thats all it is, then back away, because okay, maybe she is gay, inwhich case play on, but maybe she isn't....in which case, you have to ask if its fare to chase a girl, break her down from what she knows, and then leave her dazed and confused after some mind blowing sex, which it probably would be because there is no comparrission, GoG wins everytime!

HOWEVER, if you really do like her, best just to make a play for it, because you never know! you might get shot down, but what is there to lose? and i personally believe every girl has a little mini gay inside her pants!
So you never know you might strike lucky.

I was seemingly 'straight' when i fell head over heals with a girl i used to see around, and there were no special tricks or tips that i know of, just good old fashion one on one getting to know each other and spending time together.

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If you're having problems with numero uno, then I doubt number dos is really that imperative.

So first things first...if you want to chase the straight girl, first you have to get used to being disappointed. It usually ends in heart break.

I'm after a straight girl and well I don't want to go tell her "ok, I'm so into you, wanna fuck?" coz if she doesn't want to fuck maybe I will never see her again... Not that I see her much anyway, but whatever! To approach her I started talking to her, doing compliments and at some point when we were saying more than just "hello" I asked her number. I will ask her out at some time, when I get some free time... After that I don't know what I can do... I will get it as far as her signs will get it...

Gaydar is a major talk and how you can tell if she's a lesbian is being discussed in so many topics in OC so you can read other posts in other topics. Some times it's difficult to tell, but sometimes it shows...

PS. I belong to the unexperienced crowd

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