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tops and bottoms.... or switch

what do you consider yourself? tops, do you typically find yourself generally attracted to women smaller/shorter than yourself, or does it matter? bottoms, do you tend to be drawn more to butch types, or does it matter? what kind of conflicts have you ran into when you hookup with someone that leaned more towards your own personality?

what makes a top hot to you? what makes a bottom hot to you?

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I've never been in a

I've never been in a situation where I've been attracted enough and confident enough to be a top...but I'm just waiting for that day ;)

*Steamy*

Honestly when we are getting into it, I think we both fight to be on top at first, and then it's just getting way to hot and steamy for either of us to care, we just like flipping each other on our backs, like I love holding her hands above her head so she can't touch me, and then I just start licking her neck and playing and then she'll flip me over too and start teasing me, so it's kind of a throw up. . . . .

My girlfriend does the exact

My girlfriend does the exact same thing.

well.......

we usually switch but i like being a bottom better and my girlfriend likes being a top.. so everything works out.

I like

I think I like both but its really who Im with at the time and how they are reacting to me .

I guess to clarify my

I guess to clarify my previous post....sometimes I like being on the bottom( for me thats being contolled in a way),but then sometimes I like being on top(thats totally me taking control).My mood either makes me a top or bottom:)

i thought top/bottom/switch

i thought top/bottom/switch referred to sex...

It depends on my mood and

It depends on my mood and who I,m with. sometimes,I like to be controlled.If I,m with a girl whos more butch I like to try to take control .I,m mostly into girls who are my size(5 feet)But I also like bigger girls than me.I would love a tall girl with loooooong legs!!

I never...

... really thought about it. My girlfriend's small and thin but very athletic. She's not particularly a butch or a femme. And neither am I. We switch from time to time. I guess we both think that it would be boring if we're stuck to being just a top or a bottom. So yeah. SWITCH HITTERS FTW!

im a top

i'm a top always have been always will be it is hot to have a girl try and flip the roll but it doesn't happen alot. i can't say that i go for just one type of girl i use to just sleep with fem's but not so much anymore and when it comes to being in bed with someone like me some times it hard to because we both like to be in control but it ends up being the greatest sex i've had

I actually like

I actually like being dominated, i think it's incredibly sexy, although i like to switch it up just as much. I'm totally femme, and i'm into other femme girls, but i think its so hot to have a beautiful feminine girl take control of me. I love girls who are somewhere around my height and body type, but i'm 5'9 and really thin/athletic, which makes it kind of difficult.

In my fantasies I'm always

In my fantasies I'm always toppin'.

But I think I tend to be a submissive pussy.

Meow.

Mostly a bottom but

switchy, too. It's fun to mix it up.

I'm 5'4. So's my honey.

switch hitters

i love a girl who wants me to dominate her and then just as easily will flip me over and top me. im a femme and im only attracted to femmesand i love taller girls, but I'm 5' 8" myself, so anything from the 5'7" to 5' 11" range is perfect. i once slept with a girl who was 5 ft and it was like sleeping with a child. creepy.

I'm a dominant feminine

I'm a dominant feminine (looking) top. Height doesn't matter in the bedroom.

I am willing to switch and try bottom if a woman makes me want it. Which is rare.

I prefer smaller or equal

I prefer smaller or equal (i'm 5'6), but it's not THAT important tho. i can't even say what i like more if submissive or dominant because both are sexy in their own way. hmmm, let's say: a girl that comes across submissive but when it comes to sex can be pretty dominant. yea..that's my thing ;)

" One day you will ask me what's more important to me, you or my life.I will answer: my life.And you will leave me without knowing that you are my life"

switch it up

i've been a top and bottom... and that's all with the same girl. i like to switch it up.. sometimes i like to take control and then other times i just want to be "ravished" hah

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I would guess that I'm a bottom (I'm a virgin)...but I def would like to switch roles in bed.
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I am a topper.

Haha I love being on top. I love taller women. And I like them feminine.

I like to switch it up...

I'm pretty femme but I can say I like being a top and a bottom equally... I'm attracted to taller women. (I'm 5'1)Femme but dominant. Strong and sexy. I need a sexy woman to put me in check sometimes. ;)

I like being top mainly

I like being top mainly because I'm very generous and un-selfish. I'd rather make her feel good instead of me. :]
But of course, it's always fun to switch every now and again.

I consider myself a bottom

I consider myself a bottom and am attracted to ladies who are less feminine. I'm short, but thick.

A wise woman once told me, "Game spots game."

Drawn to more "butch"

I'm usually drawn to "soft butch" types, but it's not a steadfast rule. I prefer women close to my own height, which is hard to find, I'm tall.

I'm taller ;)

I believe I'm taller than you. I'm 1.8 (m)
And have kind of given up the thought about someone in my length..
Plus I love heels.. That makes me 1.85 - 1.90 when I'm out walking :P

You're NOT taller than I am!

You're NOT taller than I am! ;)

I'm not? Cool! How tall are

I'm not? Cool!
How tall are you then? Now I'm really curious!

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so, who is taller? tall is

so, who is taller? tall is hot!

Never was good at Metric converstion! lol

How tall is 1.8 (m) in feet & inches?! Please don't ever make me do math of ANY kind! eek! lol ;)

1,80 m is about 5'9 feet "

1,80 m is about 5'9 feet

" One day you will ask me what's more important to me, you or my life.I will answer: my life.And you will leave me without knowing that you are my life"

Thanks!

Thanks!

I'm so glad the US didn't go metric!

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yeah, but its like we speak

yeah, but its like we speak latin and everyone else is speaking english..... metric is pretty much global, if I am correct.

metric is the bomb...if i am

metric is the bomb...if i am also correct.

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I have a difficult time

I have a difficult time finding any mathmatical related subjects to be the "bomb", but I suppose it could be to some folks. metric is what the rest of the world uses, so I figure its more the "bomb" than other archaic methods of measurement used in the u.s.

I have a difficult time with

I have a difficult time with maths full stop, so metric just seems the logical choice, as it makes sense. 10mm in a cm, 100cm in a metre, 1000m in a km. logical. rather than 12 inches in a foot, 36 inches in a yard and 1,760 yard in a mile. I put it to everyone who is using this system: how the fudge do you do it? and who the hell came up with it??!

guys -.- im begging u to

guys -.- im begging u to stop this please because i ALWAYS get a notification for a comment reply just because i said 1 THING lol...that's annoying since i dont have anything to do with this discussion^^

ps: metric is the best...oh oh am i in now?? =P

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