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August 5, 2008 - 6:47pm — dylan.skylarOkay, so my girlfriend of 2 years now has suddenly gotten very uninterested in everything having to do with me (ok I may have exagerated). But, she has been keeping her messages very short when texting, no longer sends me anything first, seems totally uninterested in getting physical to any extent anymore, visits rarely, and has been acting just really detached. She always insists on doing stuff with other people and is almost avoiding doing anything thats just the two of us. Is all of this a sign she's cheating on me? Or could she want to distance herself before she breaks up with me?? It's driving me insane not knowing what is wrong and what is going on with my relationship. Does anybody have any clues or helpfull advice pleeeeaaasssee??
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we can't help you. u can. go
we can't help you. u can. go to her and ask her and tell her what bothers you. good luck.
"Killing for Peace is like Fucking for Virginity."
okay, talk to her obviously.
okay, talk to her obviously. it may just be that she feels like you've been too clingy, and she thinks that being distant will hurt your feelings less than actually telling you - so if you start that conversation, it'll clear everything up and you'll know where you stand with her.
well,
talking to her would be the best solution to your problem, but if she refuses to talk about it then maybe you should be the one to tell her how you feel, just say that you think shes being very distant lately and acting different, and your worried because you don't have a clue on what is going on and if ever she has a problem or has something to say your willing to listen and work things out. You don't have to ask her anything, just let her know, eventually she'll say what's on her mind...
-good luck!
Its weird.. but I think,
Its weird.. but I think, you have to talk with her, go to the point !so, I do agree with "sweets"
good luck.
be direct
You have to be direct and ask her what is wrong. Tell her that the answer she is giving you is not satisfying for you, and you feel like something is wrong.
talk to her
I think you should talk to her and express what you feel.
I try but..
I try to talk to her about things but she either avoids answering or says nothing is wrong and changes the topic and shuts up about it. It's really hard to get her to open up and talk about problems. How can I get her to start talking more and open the communication lines with these things?
Time
Maybe she just needs some space or time. Sometimes there's inner demons that push the ones we love away for a little while until we can sort them out. I'd just let her know you're there when she's ready to talk to you.
As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder....or distant. You won't know anything until SHE'S ready to talk. Pushing her to talk may just push her further away.
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