Ok. Well so im new to this. and having a blast my 1st nite in.

Ok. Im hitting on all of you. Now some of you feel better and some of you dont. ITs all about what we like.

And most women dont do the hunting. so it leaves alot of women not feeling attractive. Because some other girl out there has looked your way and thought.. damn she is cute. but im sure she wouldnt be interested in me and sticks to herself as well.

Life is a 50/50 If you not being hit on. Say hi to someone you like. I mean you really dont like them. you dont even know them as a person. You like what you see.

And thats the biggest problem i have seen in most women.

when i see a woman i like. I walk up to her. i say hello i find out right away how she responds. does she smile. does she sneer? really what its comes down to is im not asking for someone to marry me.

I want to see what kind of personality this chick has behind the pretty face. it all goes from there. You would be surprised.

But i love women and love people. I wasnt always this way. i was very shy at a point in my life. now life is to short to be shy.

Hello all you sexy ladies. i hope you are having a wonderful time..

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...I can sympathize, or empathize rather. I don't get hit on, get numbers, by either guys or gals...and it does not help having all of one's circle of friends be ensconsed in relationships.

I'm sure we're all fantastic but as fellow poster said, "it's not you, it's them..."

Let us all meet people as hot, smart, and hilarious as us!

Try living in a small town in France where no one accept homosexuality(not as in California,i think)and you'll know that you're not alone!Maybe we're doomed?Maybe life is cool for some people and is a bitch for others.
Anyway,i think there's many people in your situation ,gay or straight.

A girl has never asked for my number or anything?... I've never been hit on in person by a girl unfortunately.. dammit! lol.. Don't beat yourself up about it though I guess.. There are maaany ppl in your shoes too :) one day it'll happen.. Then we'll say something stupid and screw it up anyways haha

Wow, this made me chuckle. I am sure asking for a number is pretty hard. =P I mean, it takes a lot of courage to walk up to a random person and ask them...

So whats your number? ;D

My situation is a bit different, but yes, it is a rare event indeed when I get hit on. At 46, I've pretty much given up. I've also stopped "hitting on" others, since I'm usually either laughed at or told my favorite line "you're nice but..."

When I do get hit on, it's either by a married woman, one who has serious mental health issues, or both. That trend has been so prolonged and consistent that I no longer date anyone.

If I were straight, I would have my pick of any man I wanted. I have a good job with a decent income, am fairly attractive, look much younger than I actually am (when I keep up with the hair color, lol), am very intelligent, well educated, etc. Yet not one woman who is single and mentally stable will give me a second look, let alone have a beer with me or give me her number.

Welcome to living in Southern California, where everything is a beauty contest, relationships are disposable on a whim, and life is expected to be like what we see on television or in the movies. Trust me, it isn't you, it's them.

Illegitimi non carborundum

I haven't been hit on that I recall. I feel as if there is something wrong with me. Like, I'm untouchable? Or maybe just extremely gross looking?

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Peace is a lie, there is only passion. Through passion, I gain strength. Through strength, I gain power. Through power, I gain victory. Through victory, my chains are broken. The Force shall free me.

I use to be in your shoes. This may not be your case, but I use to be very self conscious and withdrawn and that's what I projected to the world. People saw me as either skittish or stuck-up. Yeah, it helps to look well-groomed and well-coordinated, but I learned that no matter what you're wearing or what you look like people respond to confidence, openess, and a lot of smiling. That doesn't mean being Ms. Perky 24/7, just be engaging.

Of course, it also depends where you go. I've never been hit-on by a girl outside a gayborhood or a gay establishment or function. I have flirted with girls in the straight world but that's about it. I mean, it would take a very ballsy girl to hit on you in a predominately straight environment when she doesn't even know if you're gay/bi/whatever or (unless you wearing pride jewelry) plain straight.

And who says you have to wait to be hit on? You can do the hitting too!