so i have this theory with women in regards to me that i JUST reproved. picking up chicks 4 me is like trying to fit the square piece into the triangle-shaped hole. dont get me wrong though, im very well-versed in flirting and my social skills are far from lacking. im a natural flirt so when i just act myself i usually attract more ppl without even realizing it but usually only men. then when i make a conscious effort, it like backfires. my non-incentive glare is already intimidating enuff...
last night i went 2 a local bar here in Florianopolis (surf capital of brasil ;) and there was the usual really good live music, jager bombs with Rodrigo, and tonight we saw a group of lesbians with the occasional soft butch.
these girls couldnt have made it more obvious (hence the making out lol) and im all excited as me & Rodrigo pound bombs. when i turn my head and catch one of them staring at me, i grin and give her a stare she'd never 4get. the girl i shot a glare at turned her head SO quickly ud think she would have given herself a charlie horse lol. oops, did i do it again? i think i did.
i spent the next hour b4 we left for the party catching her looking at me and she'd jerk her head when i noticed. i SERIOUSLY said 2 myself and my friend "fuck it! this is pointless!!" i mean usually id go over, ask for a cig, and buy her a drink but she was like scared or something, weird.
she obviously thought there was no possibility whatsoever of me being into girls. so yea once again, i fail to pick up a chick for wat i believe to be a default. its not my fault my eyeliner makes me look evil or something! haha no joke though.
so as we leave the bar i walk past her and give her a smirk and a wink cause after all, i had to at the least, keep it classy. she HAD 2 have figured it out right? but conclusively, i had a party to crash so i remain single and getting no action.
any suggestions?...besides turning straight and online dating haha
HELP!!