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September 24, 2008 - 5:42pm — t0mb0y15Ok, I need some help because I am in this relationship I don't really want to be in. Here's the deal:
I've been seeing this girl for 7 months tomorrow. We lived together this summer and I've told her she's my world. Now we're at school and I don't have time for a relationship I don't want to be in. I barely have time for myself at this point. We broke up last weekend because I wasn't happy, then we had the "honeymoon period" which made me really happy, and now we're back just riding the wave, I'm kinda waiting for her to be an idiot again so I can dump her.
The other part of this is I've been talking to my ex. She is just phenomenal, but we broke up because I was leaving for college. Now we are both more mature, very much grown people who are ready for each other again. I feel like a relationship with her would be what I have been waiting for, a healthy one.
How can I dump my girlfriend now without telling her I just don't think she's the one for me. She definitely isn't, and I can tell that.
Please help me!
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Laurie
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Thanks guys!!!
I did it... I broke it off with her, I was just straight up and told her everything. She wasnt too happy. Oh well. Thanks for your help!!!
Laurie <3
Along with what Kalimba said...
I would just tell her that you don't feel the same way you used to, and that you love her, but aren't in love with her. Obviously, the more truthful you are the better, but since they may end up causing undeserved bitterness, tell her what you can.
"Some cause happiness wherever they go; others, whenever they go."
One way or another she'll
One way or another she'll get hurt... So try to be as honest as you can (I know it's tough to say the total truth some times). Don't wait for her to do something bad, it will be tiring for both of you... Tell her that you love her, you had a wonderful time with her, but all human stuff have a begining and an end and you feel like it's time for you to look for something else because you've lost the inicial enthusiasm and passion. And more blah blah... Optional (if you have the "guts" to admit: Tell her that there's someone else you're interested. She'll realize anyway, especially if she sees you dating your ex...
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And if my present deeds are foolish in thy sight, it may be that a foolish judge arraigns my folly.
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tell her her vagina tastes like fish and you dont like fish...
Why don't
Why don't you just tell her the truth????
A friend is someone who understands your past. Believes in your future, and accept you just the way you are.
Well, I think you owe it to
Well, I think you owe it to her to be honest about your feelings. Just tell it to her how it is, I think people would rather hear the truth. Trying to let her down easy may just give her hope and that entire break-up, honeymoon, get back together, cycle may start over again.
Try to leave out the ex info though. Lol.