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Introducing: Friends Plus

OurChart connects you with more than just your friends. So we've created "Friends Plus" as a way to designate on your chart someone who's more than just a friend: hookups, exes, one-night stands, long-term partners, and any other players in your own personal dyke drama.

Ever been secretly in love with your best friend? Kept up an intense relationship with an ex? Found yourself in a group of girls who've all slept with each other? Been out with a girl but weren't sure you were on a date?

So have we! All of these are your Friends Plus.

There are three ways to turn friends into Friends Plus (on this site, at least - offline, that number goes way, way up):

1. On the Chart, single-click your friends' photos to access their mini-profile, and then click "add to my Friends Plus" to submit a request.

2. On your Friends page, click the arrow next to your friends' usernames and select "add to my Friends Plus" from the drop-down list.

3. When viewing another user's profile, click "add to my Friends Plus" beneath their user photo.

Whenever you click "add to my Friends Plus," a notification is sent to that member prompting them to approve or deny your request. Nobody can designate you as Friends Plus without your permission, and vice versa.

Here are a few more tips to get you started:

* If you have a pending Friends Plus request, you'll see a notification to the right of your username in the gold navigation bar. You can also visit your Pending Requests page by clicking the link on your Friends page (just below the Friends tab).

* You can choose to approve or turn down your Friends Plus requests immediately, or you can think it over and decide later. All unanswered requests expire automatically after 30 days.

* If you become Friends Plus with someone, you automatically become friends as well, if you aren't already.

* You can choose to view all of your friends or just your Friends Plus by clicking the link beneath your user photo, the link in the upper left of your Chart, or the link beneath the tab on your Friends page.

* If you've got any more-than-friends types who you'd like to add as Friends Plus, but they're not on the Chart yet, you can send them an invite to join here. If you're looking for someone that you know is already registered with us, do a user search to track down their profile.

* The new My Friends section beneath the user photo on your profile pulls eight random friends from your friends list. You can't customize this area yet, but we'll add that in a future release.

* You may notice that your user photo is now a slightly larger 200x200 pixels. If you uploaded an image smaller than that, the site will automatically add a black border around it for you. If your image is larger, it will automatically be sized down (1600x1600 pixels is still the maximum size you can upload).

If you need help with Friends Plus, leave a comment in this Forum, send me a PM, or use the Contact form and we'll do our best to help!

-Lisa
OC Editor

225 Posts

new bi-sexual R&B artist!

Hey everyone! I go by Shiré and I would love to meet some fellow musc lovers! Check me out! www.myspace.com/shireuniversal

Hi!!!!!!

Well I'm new and would like to meet people.

Hi Everyone!!!

Im a new here... soooo Add me up!!!

figlio de un cielo cosi

Hi, girls! I´m from Brazil, I´m a doctor and I´m going to travel to Italy, London and USA soon. I´d like to make friends from all over the world. I´m a huge fan of TLW.
I´m anxious for meeting you soon.

WESS-CRACCIN

WHAT IT DO PEOPLE JUST MOVED BACC TO CALI AFTER LIVIN IN YUMA,AZ 4 THREE YEARS DAMN ITZ GOOD TO BE HOME!!! NOW IF I COULD GET SOME HOME GIRLZ AROUND THE POMONA AREA AND WANNA KICC IT GET AT ME SO WE CAN GET THIS FRIENDSHIP OFF THE GROUND YAA-MEAN

HEY YA'LL

JUST WANTED TO STOP BY HERE AN SAY HI TO YA'LL AND HOPE TO MEET AND MAKE SOME NEW FRIENDS ........SO IF YA IN THE EL PASO TX AREA OR THE HUDSON AREA IN FLORIDA ..... DROP US A LINE WOULD BE COOL TO MEET AND HANG OUT WITH SOME NEW PEEPS AND HAVE A GREAT TIME !

CHRISSY_BLAZE
TTFN

music

hello,
my english is not perfect but i'll try to write you..
i live in france, to la rochelle, near the sea!
i adored the L word's film ; i loved the music on this series...
i composed some songs (guitars and voice) ; i talk about love, love women, not only, to be parent, to afraid about the death, relation ship, ...
the music is my life
if someone is as me , contact me...

the site "jamendo" has my songs (my name on this site is "lolie" or "loliecats")
kiss
lolie

You're Invited to the San Diego Gay Rodeo Sept 11-14 2008

Come out and support our LGBT Rodeo featuring hot lesbian cowgirls and roughstock women. And you can see and meet me

see website below for more details

http://www.sandiegorodeo.com

THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 11, 2008

Boots - N - Briefs Contest / Beer Bust
7:00 PM - 2:00 AM

Kicker's at Urban Mo's
(Formerly Hamburger Mary's)
3rd & University Ave.

The Boots N Briefs charity fundraiser hosted by the GSGRA-GSDC benefits a local organization and kicks off the Rodeo Weekend. Join us at Kickers and support your favorite Cowboy/Cowgirl!

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 12, 2008

Rodeo Pool Party
1:00 PM - 6:00 PM

The Handlery Hotel - Mission Valley
Special Guest Hosts

Registration - Contestants, Entertainers & Volunteers
6:00 PM - 9:00 PM

The Handlery Hotel - Mission Valley
Rodeo Welcome Party & Entertainment
7:00 PM - 2:00 AM

Kicker's at Urban Mo's
(Formerly Hamburger Mary's)
3rd & University Ave.

SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 13, 2008

LAKESIDE RODEO GROUNDS

1:00 PM Rodeo Grand Entry
1:30 PM - 6:00 PM Rodeo Performance Events
12:00 PM - 6:00 PM Dancing & Entertainment

THE HANDLERY HOTEL

7:00 PM - 8:00 PM Twist & Shout - Dance Competition
8:00 PM - 1:00 AM Rodeo Dance Party
9:00 PM - 12:00 PM Entertainment

SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 14, 2008

LAKESIDE RODEO GROUNDS
TBA Rodeo Slack Events
1:00 PM Rodeo Grand Entry
1:30 PM - 6:00 PM Rodeo Performance Events
2:00 PM - 6:00 PM Dancing & Entertainment

THE HANDLERY HOTEL
9:00 PM (approx) Rodeo Awards Ceremony

Hello my name is Aimee! And

Hello my name is Aimee! And I am new to Kansas and this site!! But I thought I would try it out!! Hit me up if u want!!

curious

Curious, letting my fingers do the typing, I end up here. How are you ladies? Can you inspire me on this cold winter day? Are you there, dancemovers, earthshakers, beatmakers?

hello

hello everyone hope i can meet friends/special friend here who will accept and like me for who i am.

Hi Ladies!*

how are you?

just lookin for friends.

B.

new to the site

Hey gals! I'm new to the site and don't know a lot about it. My friend told me about Our Chart and said I should check it out. Here I am. ^.^

Hit me up, add me, conversate with me. : )

Happy Tuesday !

Hello everyone, i'm new to

Hello everyone, i'm new to this site and i'm hoping to find friends and have fun. Hit me Up. XOXOXOXO.

whats up

looking for friends to chat with and to have fun

es mi primera vez...

YadyRA.

tambien la mia

hola solo queria enviarte un saludo.....y bueno suerte con esa primera vez porque no eres la unica........yo tambien..........jajajaja

Friends

Oh and friends are welcome, i don't really know yet how this site works but well....
Catch y'all later :)

Ehm hi..

My name is Rachida im half Moroccan and half Dutch 19 years old and born and raised in the Netherlands ^^
Also i'm engaged with my 22 year old girlfriend Debby.. <3

hola ladies!!!

i go by the nick of khuriel..though if you wanna know my real name, all you need to do is ask..i'm new here..& like some of you, hoping to find "the one"..if you know what i mean..but for now, i'm just here to chill.. =) god bless to y'all..! =)

-khuriel-

hey

hey everyone... i'm a mexican living in switzerland for now, also new to this site so if ur lookin for a friend just hit me up

relationship

hyi, am degarvey . I will like to be your boy friend

also want you to be my girl friend

hi, l'm alfred from Ghana and want you as a friend.
nkrumah_alfred@yahoo.com

vegan chocolate and green

Greetings: I am looking forward to meeting new friends

sup

hey everyone i am new to the site so i am checking it out tring to make friends while i am in iraq before i redeploy to the states

hi

hello,girls!I believe no doubt for 24years that i like girls,but I didn't act until 2 months ago.to start,I chose a lesbian bar...i was so upset by the lesbian atmosphere there!i felt really hopeless and in the hell.i know i'm a newbee at the lesbian world,the situation may be not as what i saw ,so i'd like to make more friends to know more about this lesbian world.I watched tlw last month.all the actors are so good,but i think only bette and tina's life are normal,healthy.
the others',what could i say?the hell!BTW,by definition I'm neither a butch nor a femme,i dont know who i am!really dont know any more.ok,what i wanna say is i really wanna make friends with you ,wanna know more about your lives.

Not Single but Friends are Always Welcome

I am not here to find someone new but if you wanna be my friend I've got no qualms against that.

Love, Peace, Happiness, and Chocolate Chip Cookies

i really want to be friends

i really want to be friends with you

friend from chicago???

friend from chicago???

Friends in Low Places

I need some friends to read my blogs and to laugh with. What's sup ladies? Not Cassandra, not Cassidy JustCass.

heylow

im new and i dnt knw wat to do but hey watz happenin everybody? add me and let's talk..

Hello everyone

I'm New so be my buddy!
~BDoll

gotta be smarter than what you're working with

i really gotta say this is a little confusing....But hello to all! a little more play on here, should figure SOMEthings out.

looking for friends...

hi im new too this site,im still getting used to use this site..i was hoping to have friends..
so if ever you want to b one..please feel free to add me up..thank you..

looking for friends...

hi im new too this site,im still getting used to use this site..i was hoping to have friends..
so if ever you want to b one..please feel free to add me up..thank you..

looking for friends...

hi im new too this site,im still getting used to use this site..i was hoping to have friends..
so if ever you want to b one..please feel free to add me up..thank you..

hi there

Let's be friends. Since I became an avid L word watcher, I dedcided that it was time to try out our.chart.com

thought

i'd drop in and say hola.

Looking for Friends

Hi , Im just looking for friends and would be happy to make friends with any one that has the same likes as my self

Kim R

Looking for Friends

Hi , Im just looking for friends and would be happy to make friends with any one that has the same likes as my self

Kim R

Looking for Friends

Hi , Im just looking for friends and would be happy to make friends with any one that has the same likes as my self

...

Ou que não fale também...tanto faz...HAhahha...

Só me add Pleaseeeeeeeee!

Hi!

Sou Brasileira e espero tenha alguém aqui que fale a minha linguaaaaaaaaaaaa! Please...

Kisses

hola

no soy brasilena pero entiendo tu lingua. soy de puerto rico.
mucho gusto

holaa

hola te envio un saludo de mi parte

Ola!!

Olaa!! Uau, alguém a falar português aqui chama logo a atenção! :) Qd quiseres falar, podes adicionar o meu msn, na boa! :) Fica bem! (anaisnin13@hotmail.com)

hola!

intiendo español un poco, no tanto.. buenos dias! como esta?

-khuriel-

ola

so brasileira tambem e moro na italia .......vc queria conversar un poco em portuges eu esyo aqui bejos

bonjour

hello, i am french and i am new on this site, so if you want to speak with me..
I'm looking for every people who would like to join me.
I don't speak english very well, so if you speak french, I'll be very happy if you want to be my friend.
A bientôt

uh

hi :]