[In response to Melissa Ferrick's Phone Sex question; “Do you think the constraints that the American Dream (i.e., find ONE life partner/get married/have kids) puts on our culture has influenced the way queers view and approach relationships and “true love"? Like taking the institution of marriage, for instance — it seems to me that queer women and men may have double the amount of relationships in their life than straight women and men do. I wonder what that has to do (if anything) with marriage rights?”]