I'm at a crossroads in my life.(well, in the ladies department) I haven't been so confused about what to do in 2 years!

What is the exact definiton of 'lesbian'?
American Heritage Dictionary defines 'lesbian' as "A woman whose sexual orientation is to women."

Is it possible to stay friends with your ex's?

For a year, when you've kept your heart closed, your guards up, and excluded the people trying to get close to you.. What do you do when you finally want to take that chance in letting someone in?