I am absolutely dying to know what it's like to wear a strap on!! Do you really have control over the movements or is it just flopping everywhere?

I live in Baltimore and there is a semi-large gay population, but there aren't really any great lesbian clubs. All of the cool clubs are for men!!!

As you can see, I'm a bit confused. That's also why I'm writing at 8am. I'm 30, married and bi. I love my husband, but I absolutely LOVE WOMEN!!!