Although some people take a few pages to explain themselves, they eventually get around to complaining that they’re not getting enough — or any. They want hot sex with their girlfriend whether they’ve been together for 10 minutes or 10 years.

I am so tired of feeling guilty.

So let me get back to this monogamy issue. Betty is about the most naturally monogamous person I’ve ever met.

I confess: One of our favorite dates all year is going to vote. We are policy dweebs, Good Government geeks, civics nerds.

I was in what I called an “open relationship” for five years in my 20s.

I’ve always had a lot more gender in my life than sex, starting in my teens when I just didn’t get the message that I was supposed to stop being a tomboy, and because there was so much gender, there wasn’t a lot of sex.

I’m new here.