men are a 49% majority in this country. how fucked is that...

we do like to think we're proof that queer people can be married without the world imploding...

and why we're fighting with you. one of my favorite "straight ally" signs from the Prop 8 demonstrations on Saturday was the...

we have to take a car this year, since B. broke her pretty foot...

people in poly relationships have committed relationships - just more than one - and deep, intimate connections with those ...

exactly. & both require pretty intense communication & commitment...

surely you know that people can say the same things about poly, right...

for all of you who are still looking: you'll find that person. it only takes one...

congrats! we're on 10 years together this year...

oh, the whole compromise = codependence column is coming, believe me...

honestly, i have no idea. we did indeed get married, & she proposed...

I will have to convince her to guest-post here, at least every once in a while...

& a warmer welcome I couldn't have asked for. thanks, all...